Hmmm

Got a wake up call today. One I didn't like but, unfortunately, didn't surprise me.  People that publicly point negative things out to a person and accuse them of something they are not is just not a wise move on their part.  First, it makes them look really stupid because we all know it could have been said in a private message IF this person was really concerned about this other person.  Amazes me these are the same people that throw out "stop judging" and are so gray in anything that they don't even have their own opinions it seems AND these are the people that when you have your own opinion, you are bashed for it because you don't think like they do.  It's disgusting.  I'd call them liberals but, when thinking about it, I have some very nice friends who are liberals who do NOT act like this so, I'm at a loss as to how to classify them.

Secondly, it backs me into a corner because now they are trying to start drama and are now forcing me to defend myself.  When I'm backed into a corner and INSULTED as much as what they did then yes, the *itch WILL come out.  When I am not supported and instead again insulted publicly so all can see, rather than a private message explaining their position, the *itch in me WILL come out.  So yes, I called someone a name after over 20 years of never calling people names because I definitely do NOT support it.  heh...it felt good though because that's how this person was acting....like an utterly total *itch and not in a good way.  I am now DONE with these people.  I'm too old and all most of these people do is talk about others behind their backs as I'm sure they are doing tonight.  It's really sad....

And....I lost a friend over this.  But, I guess it just shows who truly understands and who doesn't.  I'm not crying, I'm not heated, I'm not hurt, I'm not upset about any of this.  Just glad it's done and over with.  If they were in front of me, I would have said the same things to them as I said online.  That's one thing I've learned.  Don't say anything on the internet unless you are prepared to say it in person or would say it in person.

Lesson learned:  Don't insult others and they won't insult you.  Problem solved.